Monday, January 08, 2007

Nelson Mandela Quote...

Admittedly, I know very little (maybe nothing at all) about Nelson Mandela. This quote was sent to me by a Christian Entrepreneur group and I appreciated it enough to pass it along.
"We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us, ALL OF US. And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. "A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses." The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with who you closely associate-for the good and the bad. The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with the negative thinking and negative acting people. As you grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you.

"Consider this: Never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution. Because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person"

I'm not sure any further exposition is really needed after that. I sure am grateful for all of the quality friends I've been able to make and keep over the years. Providence Fellowship has facilitated meeting so many more, too, that I look forward to getting to know better in the years ahead.

3 comments:

Allison Sangree said...

Great quote Christian! The Lord has been speaking to me about the same things recently. Instead of focusing on or defining myself by the things I'm not good at, I am to see myself as God sees me - then He is glorified.

Anonymous said...

Just realizing the same things myself lately about friends! Ones you have had a long time that are still growing with you are the best! And thank God you and your family are a part of that group! Sure would like to get to know Holly! I have enjoyed getting to know some "new" people these past years.

Anonymous said...

This quote is so true. I have always considered myself fortunate when I am able to spend time with you. We also have met some really neat and interesting people at Life Center.